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Ugliness : Everything is Temporary Don't Stress

Verily, We have created all things with Qadar ( Divine Preordainments of all things before their creation, as written in the Book of Decrees Al-Lauh Al-Mahfûz ). ( Qur’an 54 : 49 )

Beshak meri badsurati mujhe pasand nahi

magar ye allah ki di hiwi taqdeer hai. aur main allah ki di huwi taqdeer per razi hoon

kyunke meri khushi se ziyada . allah ki khushi zaroori hai

And there is the type of man who gives his life to earn the pleasure of Allah;... (Qur’an 2 : 207) sacrifice, my living, and my dying are for Allâh, ... (Qur'an 6 : 162)

...But those who believe, love Allâh more (than anything else)... ( Qur'an 2 : 165 )

He who comes to taste the love of Allah can have no taste for the love of the world.”

when a person doesn’t have strong faith in Allah, he’ll prefer the admiration of his own or people over the pleasure of Allah.

it is worth it to lose everything for allah rather than losing allah for something

O ye who believe! enter into Islam whole-heartedly;… ( Quran 2 : 208 )

Looking Ugly

People who call themselves UGLY

One Thing to Remember When You Feel Low Self-Esteem

Allah swt may test a slave with: beauty and ugliness - health and sickness , wealth and poverty , success and failure etc.

We are continuously tested - either through blessings, to see how thankful we are OR through trials, to see how patient we are.

who has created death and life, that he may Test you which of you is best in deed ….. ( Qur’an 67 : 2)

...We are putting all of you to a test by passing you through bad and good conditions,... ( Qur’an 21 : 35 )

You shall certainly be put to test in your wealth and your lives... (Quran 3 : 186)

"If Allah wants to do good

39. Narrated Abu Huraira: ( Bukhari Volume 7, Book 70, Number 548: ) Allah's Apostle said,

"If Allah wants to do good to somebody, He afflicts him with Trials."

The Greatest Reward Comes With The Greatest Trial

The Prophet Muhammad ‘sas’ said:

“The greatest reward comes with the greatest Trial . When Allaah loves a People , He Tests them . Whoever accepts that Wins His pleasure , but whoever is discontent with that Earns His wrath .”

[ Reported by at-Tirmidhi (2396) and ibn Maajah (4031). Shaykh al-Albaani (rahimahullaah) considered it Hasan ]


Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: "Truly! To Allâh we belong and truly, to Him we shall return." (156) They are those on whom are the Salawât (i.e. Who are blessed and will be forgiven) from their Lord, and (they are those who) receive His Mercy, And it is they who are the guided-ones. ...( Quran 2 : 156 - 157 )

Reward Of Endeavour - Paradise

And their recompense shall be Paradise, and silken garments, because they were patient. (12) Reclining therein on raised thrones, they will see there neither the excessive heat of the sun, nor the excessive bitter cold, (as in Paradise there is no sun and no moon). (13) And the shade thereof is close upon them, and the bunches of fruit thereof will hang low within their reach. (14) And amongst them will be passed round vessels of silver and cups of crystal — (15) Crystal-clear, made of silver. They will determine the measure thereof (according to their wishes). (16) And they will be given to drink there of a cup (of wine) mixed with Zanjabîl (ginger). (17) A spring there, called Salsabîl. (18) And round about them will (serve) boys of everlasting youth. If you see them, you would think them scattered pearls. (19) And when you look there (in Paradise), you will see a delight (that cannot be imagined), and a great dominion. (20) Their garments will be of fine green silk, and gold embroidery. They will be adorned with bracelets of silver, and their Lord will give them a pure drink. (21) (And it will be said to them): "Verily, this is a reward for you, and your endeavour has been accepted." (22) ...( Qur’an 76 : 12 – 22 )

...and show patience in hardship and adversity, and in times of distress. Such are the true believers;... (Quran 2:177)

"Those will be rewarded with the highest place [in Paradise] because of their patience.." (Quran-25:75)

…surely Allah does not waste the reward of the doers of good; (Quran 9:120)

it is difficult to be patient. but to waste the reward for patience is Worse.

Jannat Mein Khubsurati Ka Mazaa Loo

1889. Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said,

"In Jannah there is a market to which the people will come every Friday. The northern wind will blow and shower fragrance on their faces and clothes and, consequently, it will enhance their beauty and loveliness.

They will then return to their wives who will also have increased in their beauty and loveliness, and their families will say to them:

`We swear by Allah that you have been increased in beauty and loveliness since leaving us.' Thereupon they will reply: `We swear by Allah that you have also been increased in beauty and loveliness since we left you." ...[Muslim].

After 100 Years

A hundred years from now when you are alone in your grave, no one will care how much money you had, or what car you drove, or what kind of house you lived in, or what position or rank you held. There will hardly be people who would even remember how handsome or beautiful you were.

The only thing that will matter then will be your righteous deeds.

Insaan ke Do Shakal

ek insaan dunya mein bahut bad surat magar Allah ki nigah mein bahut khubsurat.

ek insaan dunya mein bahut badsurat hai magar iske nek ammal ki wajah se Allah aur farishton ki nigah mein bahut khusbsurat hai.

ek insaan dunya mein bahu khubsurat magar Allah ki nigah mein bad surat.

Ek insaan Dunya mein bahut khubsurat hai . magar is ke ghalt kamon ki waja se akhirat mein bahut badsurat hai.


How did the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) deal with people not feeling good about themselves?

What you find consistently from the Prophet Muhammad is that he would tell people to worry about how they seem or looked in the sight of Allah Almighty.

Every time the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) addresses someone with low self-esteem, he mentions their image in the sight of Allah Almighty.

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You know what, if you are small in the sight of Allah, I don’t care how beautiful you are, I don’t care how rich you are, I don’t care if you’ve got $140 shoes on or if you’ve got nice clothes on… If in the sight of Allah you are little, you are little.